Posted by antigua on June 11, 2004, at 18:25:56
In reply to Re: Racer and Antigua....any better?, posted by B2chica on June 11, 2004, at 12:59:18
You sure our husbands aren't brothers??? Mine doesn't have any brothers, but he could use one.
He is also helpful when it's "convenient" but more often he focuses on the effect this has had on HIS life, his sexual life, yada, yada, yada, how he doesn't want anyone else to feel sorry for him because he has this defective wife (sexually) so he doesn't want me to talk about it. His version of my problem. I guess that's probably the normal response.Mind you, he is a good man, he really is, and I do love him, but he's all that I've ever known. I met him when I was very young and never let go. But I got lucky too. Many abused women seek out abusers themselves; I picked a polar opposite of my father (in some ways, the important ways), but in other ways there are still the control issues.
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