Posted by AuntieMel on June 4, 2004, at 14:20:26
In reply to Re: What is wrong with me???, posted by TexasChic on June 4, 2004, at 13:45:21
Of course you care what your friends think about you. If you didn't you'd be *really* nuts (grin)
And if someone did that for eight years to you, you have every right to be gun-shy. A true friend would tell you kindly if there were any issues, unless of course she was having problems of her own.
The suggestion to leave wasn't to be used as a way of revenge. More that you need to protect yourself first. Selfish? maybe. But this is a time where you need to be selfish and insulate yourself against hurt.....she says with the voice of experience. You can be a much better friend to others if you are taking care of yourself first.
Gotta run home. I need to make an appt for mom at md anderson today. My son's going to see his dad for the weekend, so I'll have access to the computer again for the weekend. Yippeeeeee.
Mel
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