Posted by karen_kay on May 27, 2004, at 14:29:57
In reply to Friends ain't a tv show, posted by partlycloudy on May 27, 2004, at 7:43:42
i don't know if i can help you or not dear. but, do know that the people who failed to come to your party are the ones who missed out. i know if i were in your area, i'd be very honored to know you and have a cup of coffee with you miss sunshine. please understand that the people who failed to attend missed a wonderful opportunity to talk with an amazing person. too bad for them.
i know that i'm often one of 'those' people, without even realizing it :( i will be in the same town as my best friend for days and not even call her. not because i don't love her dearly, but because i feel that if i'm with my sister i have an obligation to be up her butt the whole time and not divide my time among other people, even my mother. and i recently had a friend call about her upcoming wedding, but i didn't return her call because i know i won't be able to attend and rather than tell her i can't go, i'd rather lie and say i never got the message. and if i'm talking to one person on the phone, i won't answer the other line to tell another person i'm talking because i don't want to put the first person on hold. not that i'm trying to make excuses darling, please don't get me wrong. i know i hurt feelings often when i do this too. but, i do it because i am attempting to not hurt feelings.
((((miss sunshine)))) i wish that no one ever felt lonely, especially you dear. you're so very kind. i wish everyone had the opportunity to see that like we do. take care of yourself doll.
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