Posted by katt on March 30, 2004, at 17:39:57
In reply to Re: Therapist and horniness » katt, posted by spoc on March 29, 2004, at 23:33:31
No, not a great place to be, but whatever...we definitely fight a lot. I'm not in therapy -- he is.
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> Anyway, WOW, how very NOT in *your* best interests. Does he ever ask how all this has affected your attitude about therapy, or likelihood of ever seeking it again? Have you ever brought anything about it up? Everyone's human I guess but there are some professions in which people really, really, REALLY should be super-human in some ways! It sounds like you want him there, but I'm so sorry that this door ever got opened in the first place. I hope you'll see that he is more than just a regular screw up and find it in you to have faith in another therapist again someday!
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> > ...He is a psychiatrist... I would sometimes see him at his office over the weekend, but he didn't want me to be his patient. Then one day he was at a conference and gave me the name of the hotel to meet him there...I thought he was in a conference room of some sort, but I was surprised when it was just a room. I went inside and was upset about stuff so it never occurred to me. He asked to kiss me and I didn't know what he meant so I said yes. Things sorta got out of control after that. I was very confused for at least a year after that. I wasn't sure who he was to me. Then I got sick and my drive disappeared as did the passion. But he gets very upset with me when I can't do anything about it. So I just do whatever to please him. So long as he doesn't throw me out of the picture.
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> > When I was discharged, I was bounced around from one therapist and one doctor to the next. I never settled in with anyone, and eventually, just stopped seeing anyone altogether. I really would never see anyone ever again. >
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