Posted by shar on January 3, 2004, at 13:27:40
In reply to famly looks @ disorder as contageous disease, posted by st@cy on January 2, 2004, at 12:48:49
> i hate myself because they won't let me forget my faults, they won't let me forgive myself.
You CAN forgive yourself even if nobody else in the whole world ever forgives you! It takes a new way of thinking, and overcoming a lot of what's been put in your head...but YOU forgiving YOURSELF is in YOUR hands, not theirs.
And, I agree that your situation is the pits, and I know how external events can affect us, so that makes it harder. But, don't give up on yourself. You are very young (to me), and have a chance to live a good life. I encourage you to do whatever you can to get there.
Good luck!
Shar
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