Posted by Dr. Bob on December 23, 2003, at 5:28:20
In reply to Re: Larry you are so rude. » Jai Narayan, posted by Larry Hoover on December 22, 2003, at 19:32:09
> how about I just give Larry's post to you as a gift? I find it hurtful
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> tabitha> There's no way I'm going to accept someone else failing to treat *me* with empathy and respect, and failing to acknowldege *my* sincerity, in the guise of reinterpreting my words to imply my own failure in those realms.
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> Larry Hoover> The way if appears to me is he can give advice but he but he can't take it.
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> Jai Narayan> I have no doubt he thought he was being helpful. But was it?
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> The only part that was lacking for me was the empathy...and might I add boundaries. It looks like he stepped on her toes.
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> Jai Narayan> you are looking at my post with the benefit of hindsight. That's easy, and offers up a false sense of truth and veracity.
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> Larry Hoover> that's rude.
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> You are totally rude to me. Clear Larry, so RUDE!
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> Jai Narayan> you insult me
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> you trivialize the remark
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> you impugn my character
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> your insulting remark
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> you have ignored my explanations, and have substituted your impressions as if they are fact
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> Larry HooverPlease, everyone, be sensitive to the feelings of others and don't post anything that could lead them to feel accused or put down, thanks.
Bob
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