Posted by Elle2021 on November 17, 2003, at 4:19:13
In reply to loneliness is not a phase, posted by octopusprime on November 17, 2003, at 1:35:26
I don't know if "Hi, how was your day," would help my depression, but it could be the cause of yours. Sounds like your feeling lonely. I'm sorry your having to deal with immature types and have run into the type who can't have deep friendships. I'm the "can't have deep friendship" one. I don't know how to maintain or get to that level of intimacy. Scares me too. Telling someone your innermost thoughts, and knowing that they can use them against you if they so choose. I have trust issues, if you can't tell. I thought of something though, maybe it's *where* you're finding these friends that is the problem. Try looking for people in more committed situations or something like vounteer work. Those people seem to have it together. Maybe they can give you what your looking for. Just my 2 cents though. :) God bless you.
Elle
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