Posted by della on October 6, 2003, at 11:46:29
In reply to Stay Strong!!! (nm) » kara lynne, posted by fallsfall on July 21, 2003, at 15:19:54
Dear Kara-Lynn
I believe I have been in the same struggle you went through or are still going through with your boyfriend. Relationships sometimes are more about power than love. The hardest thing to do is to accept that you love someone (whether they deserve it or not) and then let them go. In other words you love someone just for themselves, without trying to change them or yourself. I think that is called "unconditional love." I have struggled my whole to attain that but I still feel it's the only way to go. Best regards, Della
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