Posted by giget on July 21, 2003, at 8:30:17
In reply to And then she blew it., posted by kara lynne on July 18, 2003, at 21:32:35
Kara,
I know that others will see this as a bad thing to say but...At least he is trying. He is trying to tell you his feelings and he is very hurt at this point, that is why he gets defencefull.
Like I said before, he will always be who he is, not what you wished he would be.
For a man to come back upset and crying says alot. He is just now realizing what he has done and what he is missing...
You will still have the upperhand if you do not call him, and let him keep on calling you. Every so often answer and act like nothing is wrong... that is where you get the upper hand. He will eventually break down and ask for you back or give up....
I am at a point of alot of pain, so please do not take this post as wrong. I long just for a day where he comes back and even tryes to be part of my life............
Sorry, ignore this post if it does not make sence.
poster:giget
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