Posted by kara lynne on August 7, 2003, at 0:05:30
In reply to Re: Help! I need somebody... » kara lynne, posted by fallsfall on August 6, 2003, at 21:53:13
Hi fallsfall,
Nice to hear from you.I keep trying to keep in mind that I do better when I don't speak to him. I emailed him and told him I needed some more time for myself right now, and that if he doesn't hear from me that's why. My therapist reminded me today that to be with him I have to give up me. Not a good deal.
So I'm trying to get through day at a time, with manageable steps. If I start thinking I can never see him or call him, and get strung out imagining him with another woman I don't do well. But I'm trying to take it a step further and imagine what life will be like for that woman---was it you that said I should send her a condolence card?
Oh boy. The problem is that damn 5am time. I wake up so vulnerable.
I will try to find us a nice doorstep, with good patters.
How are you doing? It really is nice to hear from you.
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