Posted by bozeman on April 6, 2003, at 0:38:14
In reply to Resentment » whiterabbit, posted by IsoM on April 3, 2003, at 19:41:29
I swear, in many ways we've lived the same life. It's downright spooky.
I don't see my ex-husband, or have to hear about him, and even after fifteen years, his shadow *still* falls over me sometimes. The insecurities he ingrained into me sometimes come back without warning, over triggers that seem little, but aren't.
But I'm feeling much better these days. Surviving the breakup with last boyfriend without wanting to slit my wrists, or run back into his arms when he (inevitably) realized what a jerk he'd been -- *THAT* was revenge on ol' ex-husband. You can knock me down but you can't keep me down. Not forever, anyway. :-)
Hugs
bozeman
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