Posted by Tabitha on April 2, 2003, at 23:39:42
In reply to Re: my date is ruined already...maybe not, posted by shar on April 2, 2003, at 21:56:22
it's not the money, it's the dance step. I used to insist on paying half, and I think guys got the message I didn't really want them to court me. So I tried letting them pay, and discovered it makes me feel more vulnerable, and more romantic. I even let my male friends pay if they offer, I figure I'm doing them a favor to let them 'be the man' especially if they're older.
I asked men out before, and paid, but it just doesn't really feel right. It throws off the steps.
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