Posted by Tabitha on April 2, 2003, at 2:06:41
In reply to Re: (((tabitha))) (nm), posted by Tabitha on April 2, 2003, at 0:31:17
I had this whole fantasy built up already about the date, which is totally destroyed now.. so I think sheesh if I'm this worked up over this tiny thing, I'm obivously not ready to date after all..
But I should ignore these thoughts and persist right? Brush this off and find better prospects to date,,
what I used to do is, ignore the disappointments, and end up dating the guy for years anyway, to avoid facing the disappointments. Yuck.
I'm sure my therapist will have some useful though unpleasant advice about what to do from here. perhaps she'll say to tell the guy 'I was disappointed that you didn't offer to pick me up' then again, crap, men know the protocol, I shouldn't have to do such basic training, I should just trust my instinct now and ditch him. red flag! red flag!
At least my cat is choosing this time to act really psycho, she's having a love/hate thing with my slippers,, Oh- I want to rub myself all over you / No! I want to shread and destroy you! / But oh-- I must first rub myself all over you ! / No No! I hate you! You must die! // it's amusing. (((cat)))
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