Posted by judy1 on January 28, 2003, at 11:10:58
In reply to Re: fear of abandonment-wow thanks.., posted by bpdzone2000 on January 28, 2003, at 8:12:30
I guess if I completely trusted her and was at ease with myself than I probrably wouldn't be writing this to begin
with. Just another huge hurdle to overcome.Don't worry, I'm in my third year with my shrink and therapist and still don't have that complete 'trust'. Those sorts of fantasies are pretty common and I hope you really examine them with your therapist. I always think I'm the queen of abandonment issues (but lots of room here :-), so I find I do a lot of testing with my docs and they always come through with flying colors. I also SI and went through a period of putting myself in dangerous situations when I was younger (early 20s), I don't do that anymore now that I'm in my 30s and married and a Mom- I think it's called maturing out. Anyway all the best, and it sounds like you're making progress already. take care, judy
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