Posted by shar on October 3, 2002, at 23:58:25
In reply to Re: debt » judy1, posted by Dinah on October 3, 2002, at 18:25:52
Judy and Dinah,
It seems all I ever talk about in my private sessions is SI, at least lately. It is very hard for me to bring it up, and I tell her I really feel sorry for her...I never talk about it in group, and I don't have a husband to worry about telling. I don't really talk about it except to my therapist...so I encourage you both to get it out there.I have a tape called 'warming the stone child' (I bet both of you would like it, it's about children who are orphans, as in they didn't have mothering in childhood and so don't know how to mother/nurture themselves as adults). It's sort of stories, and myths, and lecture combined from a Jungian point of view. One thing she says on there is 'you can't heal what you don't feel' and I believe not talking is a way that I keep from feeling the deepest of the desolation and bleakness and hopelessness that goes with depression (and is strongly tied to SI, because S is a solution, even if not one in my own best interest).
Rambling again,
Shar
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