Posted by sar on September 10, 2001, at 1:27:20
In reply to Re: (...) all that » Racer, posted by Wendy B. on September 9, 2001, at 21:59:23
just wanted to add my 2 cents...
if you love your SO so much, wouldn't it serve you best to be completely honest with him? in a conversational, heart-to-heart way of course, but, you could ask--
what happened to our sex life?
--and--
i'm curious in seeing this old flame of mine. how would that make you feel?
my *own* experience--the only boyfriend who i've had who turned sex down turned out to be *gay.*
the best lay of my life was kind of a *dork.* amazing sex ain't enough to keep things working.
my current boyfriend isn't the best lay ever, but i'm so crazy about him that i extract the most pleasure from him...
old flames can bring up alot of weird feelins too, anywhere from passion to anger to both...
if you want to keep things smooth and kosher, i'd sit the SO down for a huge talk.
good luck,
sar
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