Posted by Asya on June 26, 2009, at 21:20:53
All,
I hope some can help shed some light on my issue. I truly need help and a push in the right direction. I am a 31-year old professional single woman. I have never had a long term relationship and have been dating and trying to find the right guy for a long time. For the past 5 years, I have worked with Gus, a married co-worker (we are both physicians at a local hospital). We have become close friends and he has confided in me about many things, including his failing marriage. Our relationship turned physical for the first time this past week. He kissed me once, earlier this week - an encunter which lasted about 1 min. We stopped at my reminder that we shouldn't be doing that because he was married. Then, today, after having a long chat about how we need to stop, we couldn't help ourselves and ended up kissing for awhile. His marriage has been crumbling for some time and we talked about the possibility of ending up together but no resolution was reached. He has children.
I am so upset and sad and guilt-ridden that I have gotten here. How do I stop? Is this considered an affair even though it only happened twice?
poster:Asya
thread:903379
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