Posted by fayeroe on July 1, 2008, at 16:13:00
In reply to Re: He wants a 3some..., posted by fleeting flutterby on July 1, 2008, at 15:56:31
> > dating for 3 years. he mentioned a 3some. he says that just sex is not intimate, but kissing is. i disagree. i could never handle seeing him even touching another woman. i believe 3somes ruin relationships. am i wrong? i am just sick over this whole thing.<
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> Well, this is my opinion-- if he knows you are not for a 3some and still pressures you, then I would say one of two things:
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> 1)-- I'll agree with a 3some as long as I get to have two men first!
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> or
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> 2)-- If I'm not good enough for you on my own then you surely are NOT good enough for me.
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> Some couples are accepting of 3somes and some are not. I would not ever agree to it but that is me and my own mind. If you don't want to you should stand your ground-- if he is worth it-- he'll stand beside you.
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> all the best to you,
> flutterby-mandy
>yup, tell him that before he brings another female into your bedroom, you get to have two men...alone, without him. see how that goes over...:-)
i wouldn't even consider the idea, myself. disease, possibility of violence, etc. plus, as far as i'm concerned just the wanting someone else in your bed is the death blow to a healthy relationship.
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