Posted by fleeting flutterby on July 1, 2008, at 15:56:31
In reply to He wants a 3some..., posted by ladydeath220 on July 1, 2008, at 15:07:34
> dating for 3 years. he mentioned a 3some. he says that just sex is not intimate, but kissing is. i disagree. i could never handle seeing him even touching another woman. i believe 3somes ruin relationships. am i wrong? i am just sick over this whole thing.<
Well, this is my opinion-- if he knows you are not for a 3some and still pressures you, then I would say one of two things:
1)-- I'll agree with a 3some as long as I get to have two men first!
or
2)-- If I'm not good enough for you on my own then you surely are NOT good enough for me.
Some couples are accepting of 3somes and some are not. I would not ever agree to it but that is me and my own mind. If you don't want to you should stand your ground-- if he is worth it-- he'll stand beside you.
all the best to you,
flutterby-mandy
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