Posted by LJRen on December 31, 2006, at 11:29:03
In reply to Re: Anyone have letting go suggestions?, posted by karen_kay on December 31, 2006, at 10:16:29
> well, i'm assuming there's ar reason you want it to end. perhaps when you're feeling lonely, you can remind yourself of why you need to let go. not much advice to give, but i can tell you that you'll get through it. also, perhaps remind yourself that you deserve a partner as wonderful as you are. that constant reminding may help. then again, it may not help at all. sorry, i'm not much help. but, hang in there.
Thank you for responding and no, it is helpful.My reason for letting go is, despite his wonderfulness, how well we get along, and all the fun we have together, he just does not love me. I know I'm worth someone who will treasure & adore me and I've done everything I can to make him completely aware of my virtues & talents & everything. But he simply refuses to open his heart up to me.
I believe what separates us is my depression & my negativity from it b/c he is totally the opposite. He is so kind & good to EVERYONE, accepts others & rarely makes any judgement of people, is motivated & has such inner strength, and funny! He is such a force of positive energy, I just love being around him. Not that he's perfect, he does have some issues, they just don't hold him back all that much. While I've got emotional baggage that could fill a 2-car garage that I just can't seem to drop.
I just don't know how to let go of a guy who has so much of what I want in a man and is also the role model of the person I want to be myself.
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