Posted by Lindenblüte on November 12, 2006, at 10:14:50
In reply to Re: Ended bad relationship and feel terrible! » corafree, posted by LJRen on November 8, 2006, at 23:40:43
corafree-
you did the right thing.
Icecreamman is kind of toxic, just like ice cream. looks good tastes good, but has very bad side effects, including obesity, diabetes, toothdecay and heart disease.I'm sorry you're feeling lonely. Now maybe you have more time and energy to do some things you've been putting off for a while? What are your thanksgiving plans? Can you clean your place up, or maybe get your hair done? Extra time to put together that photoalbum that has been sitting in a box since Easter, 2003?
Try to stay busy and remember that you are not the solution to someone else's problem. You are your own solution to your life's challenges. You've done really well, given all the stuff that you've had to deal with. It must feel foreign to be FREE for once. Not quite sure what you should do with yourself? Well, there's all kinds of things you can do that are positive. Howabout if you spend a little time researching different charities in your area and schedule a good deed to do during the holiday season? Scoop mashed potatoes at a shelter, organize your closet and donate winter clothing to a local charity? Become someone's secret santa and give an elder a nice gift, or toys for tots?
Hang in there- write little positive reminders EVERYWHERE if you need to.
Ice cream man will move on soon, and that's for the best. Trust me- trust your gut.
-Li
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