Posted by LJRen on November 8, 2006, at 0:19:50
In reply to Ended bad relationship and feel terrible!, posted by corafree on November 7, 2006, at 14:57:55
Rest assured, you did do the right thing for yourself. If nothing else helps make you feel better then repeat, "I did the right thing for me" over & over again.
At times like this it is so very hard to forget the things that got him into your heart to begin with. Those things always seem to come back to make you doubt your actions of breaking it off or simply make the repercussive emotions that much more painful. But if you can just get through this initial agonizing period w/o returning to him, then you can move on and perhaps start figuring out how or why you end up in these type of relationships. But I know right now is excruciating. I've been there too many times to count. Cried oceans of tears. If you've been through this type of thing in the past then you know that eventually you'll get through this. You've made it out before, you can make it again. Unfortunately, life will keep throwing us the same darn lessons until we finally learn them.
Take care. Keep writing here whenever you need.
Ren
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