Posted by rfs on September 3, 2006, at 18:14:21
Hi
I have been married for 24 years. Son grown working etc. I look at my wife and think that she is a good person hard working faithful, but I really don't like her. I find her annoying. I can't share feelings with her. We have nothing in common. I don't know what to do. I think if I wasn't such a chicken I would prefer to live on my own. I feel that if I did, I would isolate never wash a dish etc. I guess I am the dependent type. but I kind of think it is unhealthy for both of us.
When it comes to sex, I am really not attracted to her, overweight has had spine surgery generally out of shape. I am no better. In all honesty, when we were young and I would talk to her father I found him to be the most annoying obnoxious oppinuated person I had ever met. Oppositional. If I said Sky blue he would say no grey etc. Anyway I feel like my wife has become him. We have seen a good therapist over the years it elps a little. If I were to leave I also feel that I would be alone forever. I am very introverted timid have few friends, kind of social phobia type. Any suggestions
Ray
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