Posted by susan47 on August 18, 2006, at 23:22:18
In reply to Yeah... » susan47, posted by Gabbi~G~ on August 17, 2006, at 23:39:50
I know what you mean. I do. I've been through being dragged through the dirt for someone else's agenda. It's almost unbelievable how you can be seen by others when your heart was never where they accuse it of having been. Or whatever. I know. I have an ex- who is a complete bastard, of course that doesn't mean ALL ex's are that way, but mine goes in and out with the tide, he's never changed one iota since the day I met him and everything else is an act. How do I know? Because of the way he treats me. Not his girlfriend, and not anyone he's trying to impress. But how he treats and talks about all the people in his life .. not just on his good days, but on his bad ones too, maybe even most especially on his bad days. That is how you know someone, isn't it true? Just wait. Things come out in the end, they do. The wash has to be cleaned or it'll have to be done again .. this is how people learn.. having to do the same thing over and over again until they get it right.
The sooner we get it right, the happier we'll be. Let them live in the dust.
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