Posted by sm100378 on March 10, 2006, at 23:37:50
In reply to Re: FEELING SOOO SAD. » sm100378, posted by Tanzanite on March 10, 2006, at 23:34:24
Thank you, I appreciate that. I was wondering if you happen to know of any URL's or info on why people do this. I am trying to figure out the "Why"....
Thanks
> I don't know about narcissicistic personality disorder with her, and truthfully she could have any of many disorders which really couldn't be figured out with the help of a trained professional. It has been my experience and understanding that some folks who say they want a casual relationship and don't want to be in a commitment will experiment, act all interested, do and say sweet things to make you feel like you are loved, and then all of a sudden up and disappear. Sometimes they will come back, just to leave again almost like it is a game. I think it is hurtful for someone to do this type thing. I feel very sorry that you have had to go through this and even worse for you that you are in the predicament with your job. I guess deciding if staying there would be good for you or not will have to be something you seriously think about. As far as for getting into a serious relationship, if she wants to come back into your life, be careful for your own emotional well being. I wish I could say more. I have had my own fair share of interesting relationship problems with my own husband. Maybe being friends with her if she decides to come back around would be a good idea instead and take your time and see how things go without getting too deep. Whatever happens, I hope you will feel better with all this soon. Peace and blessings
> Tanzanite
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