Posted by sm100378 on March 9, 2006, at 16:37:03
I want to share my story about my recent break up. It is really hurting inside.
We were going out for 2 months. We cooked, ate, tv, shopping together. It was perfect we could be together for x number of times a week and not have any problems. Last saturday afternoon, she called and said we have to talk. She said she thinks we shouldnt see each other anymore. I was so hurt to hear that.
Please keep in mind we dated last summer for 2 months. We talked on and off and then one evening I said I like seeing you casually its fun, but sometimes I just cant do this because I am not with you. Then in the morning she said my name, and then said I want to try this but you cant react like you did if this doesnt work. I had a really hard time with the first break up and it took some bit of time. Now in the beginning, One week later she says she really likes how this is going, she is going to see me exclusively. Then everything is good until saturday. She said I didnt force her, but pushed her into this. I mentioned the conversation above discussed in the morning before we got together, and she couldnt give me a response. She just said my name and I have to go. And she HUNG UP ON ME. She did this the first time as well.
Now, what is really hard is I am working for her dad and this is my 3rd week with him. It is so hard and weird I am working for him. I know he is in an awkward position. We only talked about it once and thats it, but he sees it is rough.
My therapist says she suffers from narcassistic personality disorder because of the cold, harsh, pushing blame, hurting me with no warning and just like the second time.
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