Posted by Daisym on March 6, 2006, at 2:49:05 [reposted on March 6, 2006, at 2:51:25 | original URL]
In reply to I don't feel loved in my marriage. I am sad, posted by Tanzanite on March 5, 2006, at 19:56:12
I could have written this post. Sadly, but true.
So why do you stay? I can't answer that for myself yet, it is all mixed up with duty and love and tring to fix him. I'm not afraid to be alone, I'm afraid of the mess I'm going to have to go through to get to be alone.
Have you told him how you feel? When both people stop trying it is very, very hard for either to feel love or loved.
This is the one thing I keep predicting will send me over the edge. Because being lonely when not alone is the worst possible feeling. I wish I had an answer for you instead of so many questions.
Hugs to you,
Daisy
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