Posted by JenStar on January 5, 2006, at 13:39:14
In reply to Obsessed with late husband's best friend, posted by halfempty on November 19, 2005, at 16:28:37
hi halfempty,
I'm so sorry your husband died in Iraq.I think one reason people fall for a spouse's friend is that like-minded people often choose to hang out together. You loved your husband, and probably he had good taste in friends; it makes sense that you might become attracted to his friend.
If he's single, it might be OK. If he's married, somebody could get very hurt - probably you would too.
I hope you're doing OK. Can you post an update on how things are going?
take care,
JenStar
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