Posted by Larry Hoover on November 19, 2005, at 23:21:49
In reply to Obsessed with late husband's best friend, posted by halfempty on November 19, 2005, at 16:28:37
> I know that I cannot start a lasting relationship
> I know it is inappropriate,[Spock eyebrow] Is he married?
> but if we are both consentual, is it alright to comfort eachother in this way?
If he's not married, I say absolutely all right. You both suffered a loss. There are many levels at which you can comfort one another.
If he's married, it's gonna really hurt at least one somebody. That would be a pretty powerful issue to ignore.
I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sorry he died in Iraq.
Lar
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