Posted by lynn971 on November 30, 2005, at 6:34:01
In reply to Re: Obsessed with late husband's best friend » halfempty, posted by Larry Hoover on November 19, 2005, at 23:21:49
I am so sorry that your husband died. For what it is worth I want to thank you and your family for allowing him to serve our country.
I will not get into the whole sex thing because that is complicated.
I dont think that it is wrong to fall for your late husband's friend, assuming he is not married.
Be careful though, this happens often. I was watching the news one day and they were saying thet some women whose husbands (firefighters) had died in 911 were falling for the firefighters who survived because the firemen stuck around to comfort the wives.
Just make sure that your feelings are real and not because he is there to comfort you.
I dont know if this helps.
Luv ya,
Lynn
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