Posted by Jen Star on November 14, 2005, at 18:33:34
In reply to I did tell her I'm sorry, posted by ClearSkies on November 13, 2005, at 15:16:35
Are you sure that deep inside you really are NOT sorry, and are only apologizing b/c you know it's the easist way to smooth things over...sort of akin to "giving up" on the situation?
From what you described, she really DID need someone to set her straight. And you really WERE annoyed with her behavior.
I'm sorry if my question is presumptuous or awful. But I'm concerned that maybe you're so eager to get back to the "safe" ground of getting along, that maybe you're repressing your anger and frustration and pretending to her that it's all OK, when really it isn't.
Any thoughts? Am I totally off base? I'm sorry if I am. And if things are better, I really AM glad for you! :)
JenStar
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