Posted by ClearSkies on October 24, 2005, at 16:04:23
In reply to Re: broken heart, posted by d1alla on October 24, 2005, at 10:30:08
> i just have been fighting for so long and to be honest its getting to a point where i just cant take it. every day is so painful. I still love him as much as i ever did and he told me just a week ago that im beautiful and he loves me. please give me advise on what im doing wrong.
I don't think there is a wrong way to feel here... if you and your ex aren't planning to get back together, you can still feel love for each other. You're still beautiful. These things don't change when you decide that you aren't compatible partners. I don't think they have to be exclusive, either. You can love someone like mad and not stand to be with them. Doesn't it come down to what you want out of a relationship, what you want out of a life together?
So bittersweet and painful. To go forward with my life, I had to do it physically: I moved away to help leave behind the relationship that had ended.
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