Posted by fairywings on October 10, 2005, at 22:26:12
In reply to My ex is doing what??????, posted by lakesguy78 on October 10, 2005, at 14:57:57
Hi Lakes,
How old is she? You said she was having sex with others, but is it just the one other guy, and just when they happen to see each other.
I don't know about "normal", I'd say anything can be normal, just like any other behavior. Some people are okay with casual sex and others aren't. Maybe younger, college age women are more likely to have casual sex? I don't know, I hate to generalize like that.
Anyway, I'd guess if you decide to have a casual relationship that will include sex, you have to take the risks, health wise and emotionally. If you're willing to do that, then go ahead if you're okay with it. If you don't want to get hurt, and/or you're not comfortable having sex with her, not knowing who she's been with the night before, then take the sexual component out. But, I'd guess then the phone sex would have to go too, or she might not understand.
I don't know, it's my best shot.
fairywings
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