Posted by lakesguy78 on October 10, 2005, at 14:57:57
Hi Everyone,
I was wondering if I could get some helpful feedback on how/what I should do to handle this.
I went out with my last girlfriend for 2 months. She broke up with me approximately 2 months ago. She is very independent and things moved pretty fast so she felt she had to end the relationship. She emailed me approximately 1 month ago to see how I was doing, etc. We have been talking on the phone and she says that she would not mind having casual sex / hookup with me, but that I need to know that she has sex with other people. She also calls me or I call her and she ends up wanting to have phone sex. I believe she may have a sexual addiction, but whatever. When we talk on the phone, it is very easy to talk to her, even better than the relationship, due to some slight problems, etc.
I really dont know how to handle this. It was aweful for me when she broke up, but it is easy to talk to her now, although what she is doing isnt really normal, IS IT? It took about the month for me to get over her and get healed so now that she is talking to me, I dont know what to do. She says she doesnt want a relationship, she actually is not even ready for one. The guy she has sex with is just a friend, they dont talk on the phone, they just happen to bump into each other when some of their friends meet and sex is somewhat thought of before it even happens.....
I tend to get in over my head sometimes with women, as with this one, so I dont want to get hurt again. I do like talking to her, but.....I am not sure if the casual thing is very healthy or normal...
I am so clueless,Thanks,
poster:lakesguy78
thread:565267
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