Posted by Racer on August 31, 2005, at 0:56:02
OK, my marriage has a very weak spot. Sex. Actually, anything physical. My husband will hug me standing up, but that's it.
Right now, with all the weight I've gained freaking me out so badly, I really feel pretty repulsive, and this lack of physical closeness and anything approaching sexual interest on his part is leaving me absolutely miserable.
I've tried to tell him that I really, desperately need him to SHOW me that he finds me attractive. (I'm not holding my breath.) I don't know if he understands at all -- today, I feel as though life isn't even worth living at this size.
Anyone have anythhing helpful to offer?
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thread:549054
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