Posted by Damos on August 24, 2005, at 17:19:30
In reply to I'm sorry for the Rant (nm) » Damos, posted by Susan47 on August 24, 2005, at 1:35:47
G*d Suze, that sounds positively awful. Why do men do that sh*t. Stuffed if I know. Aint it just plain disrespectful? All I can tell you is that for me, just sitting with someone over a coffee and just really talking and getTing comfortable with each other without all the other BS is the most amazing thing. To see the person, really see them, not just the possibility of sex. Or to be a sleezy d*ckhead. Don't worry, I can still be a right d*ckhead.
It might have been a bloody long time since I danced the horizontal mamba, but I haven't really missed it. What I have been given has filled me up in ways I couldn't have imagined and brought me so much in terms of what my understanding of 'loving' and being 'loved' means. Much has been given and gained and nothing lost. In my heart I know that what I have gained will help be be a better 'lover' should that ever happen again. If it doesn't that's okay too, cause at least I will know that I have loved as well as I can.
Sorry, you went through that date Suze. Not what you needed right now - ever. Someone will come along and they will SEE you.
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