Posted by woolav on June 30, 2005, at 14:02:07
In reply to Re: I pretend to be asleep, posted by uncle lou on June 29, 2005, at 22:20:00
Hey, just wanted to say I can relate. I was married for 14 years before I took the step to end it..it seemed like at the end, we were more like roommates than a married couple. I avoided him as well. If i heard him coming, I would run to the bathroom or whatever. I wasnt drinking like you have been, but i was smoking pot. It was to go to sleep everynight..(almost similiar to u) but, It took alot of guts and medication, for me to be able to leave and start over. Its been 2+ years now and I am re-married and have a new life. I am friends with my ex, well, we dont fight. We both realized that we were never good being married to each other, we would have made better friends.
But, my point is. If you feel this way, then you may need to get out. Your husband prob. feels the same way. There is a whole world out there and its amazing how life can change so much. I used to think life was hopeless, until I moved away and started over.
Good Luck
S
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