Posted by sunny10 on June 22, 2005, at 8:09:59
In reply to Okay Would You do this?, posted by Susan47 on June 21, 2005, at 22:09:59
don't be with this man. Keep up your boundaries.
Boundaries don't mean that if you talk to him, that you're obligated to sleep with him.
You're never obligated to sleep with anyone.
Please, please, please keep that in mind. You are doing so well. And I know that it seems that it would be so easy to backslide into the lifestyle that you knew. Changing is hard, but worth it in the end.
And I know that you already know this, or you wouldn't have written the post. Stay strong, Susan dearest. And remember, it's your right also, as a tenant, to let the building manager know that his son's attentions are not wanted.
That is considered harassment, by the way, for someone in "management" to make your home a hostile environment by these unwanted attentions. And the building manager should know that and tell his son to back off.
Stay strong, sweetie. You will find the right man for you. Don't settle. You're on the right track; don't swerve off.
Love you,
sunny10
poster:sunny10
thread:516873
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/relate/20050531/msgs/516980.html