Posted by sunny10 on May 5, 2005, at 7:35:20
In reply to Re: I know you're all sick of this issue right now » sunny10, posted by Damos on May 4, 2005, at 16:57:28
the waiting for a response (and talking normally to him on the phone while it is in the mail) is nerve-wracking.
But I have stood up for myself. I made myself heard in a form that cannot be interrupted, or the subject derailed...
Of course, he may read the first few lines and burn it- but then THAT will be my answer; that he doesn't care enough about my point of view for there to BE any relationship.
The part about requesting boundaries is actually within the last page, so I'll know if he bothers to read it... I didn't do that on purpose, but as I was sitting on my couch last night, I realized that I would know by his response if he actually reads the whole thing...
I was strong enough to mail it; I'm strong enough to wait for a response;I was strong enough to mail it; I'm strong enough to wait for a response;I was strong enough to mail it; I'm strong enough to wait for a response;I was strong enough to mail it; I'm strong enough to wait for a response;I was strong enough to mail it; I'm strong enough to wait for a response;
My newest mantra....
-sunny10
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