Posted by rainbowbrite on May 1, 2005, at 20:36:51
In reply to Re: ok... i need a good rejection line » rainbowbrite, posted by alexandra_k on May 1, 2005, at 20:05:14
>If I really liked someone I guess it wouldn't be a barrier.
>But I don't think I would / could. I think of them as students. Most of them are kids. Even the mature students who are older than me. They aren't kids exactly, but they are students to me. Still kids in a way. Does that make sense?
Yeah it makes sense, Although I never thought about them thinking of their students as kids LOL that is a good point. I think i may wait on it...it could be complicated :-)
>Do you think you hurt him?
Yup, pretty sure. I recently noticed a trend with myself. I am friendly in general too friendly maybe and I guess give off the wrong impression and so when they ask me Im like ..uh what? are you serious? LOL well not exactly but my face speaks for itself.
It is just certain guys, ones that I dont really like as friends but for some reason that is harder. Its not really a problem if im friendly with them. This particular guy has a friend who is really cute but well its too weird now.
So with this guy I was truely shocked, it was so out of place and weird. I was very reactive and he looked pretty hurt. The awkward thing was that we had to be together for another 15 min longer alone after so it was so icky LOL. And he looked completely shocked and uncomfortable by my response. So I really gave off friendly vibes to him I suppose. So maybe I should be less worried about a line and more worried about leading the wrong guys on :-) becasue I am very good when I am with guys I like hmmmm.
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