Posted by alexandra_k on May 1, 2005, at 19:04:41
In reply to Re: ok... i need a good rejection line » alexandra_k, posted by rainbowbrite on May 1, 2005, at 18:24:11
I didn't say it had to be the truth...
But yeah, I guess I see what you mean.
I guess I would just say that you aren't interested in them in that way.
Sometimes my students ask me out - at the end of the course. Thats what I usually say to them. That way I don't have to committ to a friendship with them. I guess that if you don't know someone as a friend and don't really want to know them as a friend then just saying that you are flattered but not interested is probably the best.
If they ask why not - I would just reiterate that. It leaves it open why not. Maybe you have just broken up with someone... Maybe you are with someone currently... Maybe you just aren't attracted to them... Maybe you think they are a jerk ;-)
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