Posted by anastasia56 on February 20, 2005, at 16:08:29
In reply to Re: trigger, posted by alexandra_k on February 20, 2005, at 3:11:54
sometimes a reality check makes it easier to end unhealthy relationships.
once when i was in an 'innappropriate' relationship my pdoc suggested i have him to come to a session. i was convinced he would come because he wanted our relationship to work. he wouldn't go. that told me volumes and gave me the courage to see our relationship for what it was. one with no future.
some of us are patterned to believe our feelings don't matter. our partners feelings are more important. standing up for ourselves can be very difficult because it goes against our grain. ultimately it is unhealty to sweep the 'bad' feelings under our emotional carpet. it's time to recognize why you are having those feelings. they are there for a reason.
ana
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