Posted by Gabbix2 on December 3, 2004, at 19:52:03
In reply to Oh » (((Dinah))) », posted by 64bowtie on December 2, 2004, at 23:47:02
> Oh » (((Dinah))) »,
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> I love the (((Dinah))) you let me know. It's unconditional by nature.
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> It's not indefatigueable. If you start acting badly toward me, my indifferenceYou mentioned before that indifference was the opposite of love, no?
> Remember, my indifference and distance is like "outta sight, outta mind". So, if I'm not sharing with you in your space and time, I can't be placing conditions on you since I'm nowhere to be seen. We are then in suspension; unconditional suspension of emotions.
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> Children can't get their little brains around abstractions like suspended beliefs and opinions. From what you say of the current state of your parent's parenting of you, the past may have lacked this useful lesson from them. No offense meant... You tell me if they did teach this.It would be *obvious* to anyone who reads Dinah's thoughtful and considered opinions that she has learned this lesson Rod.
There are no words to describe how I feel about you needing to ask her if she was taught it.In my practice, suspended beliefs and gratification tends to earmark a client for me as having maturity of feelings, thoughts, and intentions.
You mention your hundreds of successes and your practise quite frequently, so I hope you don't mind me asking you how large your practise is, and what your title is? I wouldn't normally ask this of someone on babble just because they mention occupation.
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