Posted by just plain jane on November 21, 2004, at 23:26:58
In reply to Betrayed (sorry its so long), posted by Saryimus on November 18, 2004, at 5:56:38
Yep, I'm in agreement on:
the other guy is not a friend. he will never be a friend because you cannot trust him. pretend he is no one you know and let the woman know how you feel.
if she is open to conversation, perhaps you can tell her, same as you told us, how this all came about. (careful so you don't sound like you're badmouthing him) if she's a person worth your trust and caring, she won't be too thrilled with the interloper either. if she chooses to be with him anyway, she's either not the woman you thought she was, or she is not ready for someone of your caliber yet.
my opinion.
just plain jane
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