Posted by alexandra_k on July 26, 2014, at 1:21:51
In reply to Re: Not thinking right » Poet, posted by Partlycloudy on July 24, 2014, at 15:07:47
rehab is a difficult environment. i found myself in two such settings... and while neither sounds as bad as the experience you had... it was still pretty far from therapeutic for me.
with respect to the change thing... if he doesn't want to change... i don't suppose you can make him. sometimes... there can be miscommunications, though. he thinks you want x but really you want y. i wouldn't know how to go about sorting those out...
it might be that you can learn to live with... perhaps even be happy in your current situation (perhaps especially if he actually is happy with the way things are?) if you get to exercise more freedom to seek the companionship you seek outside the relationship... or maybe not... it is hard...
anyway... hang in there...
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