Posted by 10derheart on March 8, 2014, at 19:49:23
In reply to My therapist on extended leave, posted by Dinah Seeks Support on March 7, 2014, at 20:23:20
As you would say (and have said) to me....when this insanity happens with a T.....
oh good grief
and for heaven's sake.This truly sucks and I can't even find words. I thought my convoluted, unprofessional, screwed up and unnecessary situation three years ago took the cake, but now I don't know...
(((Dinah)))
Don't take this wrong, and I mean only figuratively of course and wish him well....but I'd love to kill him for you right now since he's made moves that serve to "kill" you, emotionally anyway.
When will they ever realize....?
This is why we used to discuss here how Ts with long-term clients who have developed deep attachment and closeness over years MUST have a plan in place beforehand, involving another T. - not just any adequate one - but one whom they utterly trust to grasp our side of one of these crises - to assist with the right level and tone of intervention if the affected T. is physically or emotionally unable to notify these clients personally.
I'm praying that's who this referral person is...and maybe so, which would at least be something. If not and he didn't plan ahead, even if it only applied to you, then, well.....
<<<<<<<<sigh>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Damn the whole situation. I haven't got the right words, I know. You must be freaking our inside. I remember how wrecked I was after reading something that began, "I think I am too connected to your life..." and that was only after 4.5 years, not 20, and me moving 2000 miles away with phone therapy (changes things).
I'm here. I have to think more about this.
MDD (presently in complete remission); ADD-Inattentive type; mild anxiety (not fomally dx'd)
Meds: Strattera 80 mg q day
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