Posted by Twinleaf on January 24, 2012, at 0:18:34
In reply to Re: sorry » sleepygirl2, posted by Dinah on January 23, 2012, at 22:41:17
Dinah, you are being so honest and insightful with us. Don't you feel kind of sad and alone not to be able to discuss it all with him? I hope you will feel more like giving it a try - for me, therapy kind of comes to a halt when I avoid what's really bothering me,
There are a couple of very difficult issues here: you do have a special status as a long-term, higher-paying client, which is a complex issue, and your status is being threatened if you become lower-paying. Even your frequency seems to be now related to how much you pay..I think. We all have constant painful security issues, or we would not be seeing therapists. I think he has placed two additional obstacles to your trust in him; working that out is SO important ( the anger behind it on both sides I mean)
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