Re: HELP/What do You Think of This?! Betrayal I Feel » sassyfrancesca

Posted by Solstice on September 2, 2011, at 16:26:26

In reply to HELP/What do You Think of This?! Betrayal I Feel, posted by sassyfrancesca on September 2, 2011, at 15:43:57

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> He agreed to let me pay a little less, but I said I would repay him at a later date and he agreed.
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Sassy -
He can't read your mind. It sounds like it wasn't him who brought up repayment - it was you. Isn't it possible that he 'agreed' - not so much because he expects it to be repaid, but because it seemed important to You that it be repaid? Maybe he thought your self-concept would take a hit if he offered charity (by refusing to let you repay), and he was just agreeing with you doing what was important to you.
So maybe you don't have to feel betrayed :-)
Solstice

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