Posted by Dinah on October 5, 2010, at 16:26:03
In reply to Re: Maybe it's not such a good idea...., posted by floatingbridge on October 5, 2010, at 2:15:03
It's more or less the same thing. Well, not disinterest perhaps. I do understand that he cares about me within the boundaries of the relationship, and is interested in general in my wellbeing. But he does definitely get bored sometimes. He'll even admit to having been bored in the past, though he won't admit to being bored at the moment.
I might possibly remind him of someone in his past. I think that's happened in our relationship. Or... we might just be grasping at straws to find something to talk about. I think I'd be more engaged if he put some energy into our sessions. But even then, perhaps we've just run out of material that we're both interested in covering.
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