Posted by twinleaf on October 4, 2010, at 18:13:09
In reply to Re: Maybe it's not such a good idea.... » pegasus, posted by Dinah on October 4, 2010, at 12:07:33
Oh Dinah, that's hard to deal with. If he's sleepy, interrupting you, bringing up irrelevant topics, you are right in thinking that unexamined countertransference topics are interfering with your normally good relationship. I'm assuming this must have happened before, and that up until now you both found good ways to resolve it.
What would happen if you spoke to him just as you have to us? And didn't allow it to rest until you felt the situation was at least partially resolved?
You both have such a long history of wonderful moments together. Surely there's a way now.
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